For Patients and Survivors

Counseling

Oncology social workers help cancer patients and survivors cope with the emotional and practical challenges of cancer. Contact us at 800‑813‑HOPE (4673). Learn more about counseling.

Resource Navigation

CancerCare oncology social workers help people living with cancer, post-treatment survivors and caregivers address barriers to care. Learn more about resource navigation.

Financial Assistance

Find resources and support to manage cancer patients’ financial concerns. Limited assistance from CancerCare^® is available to eligible families for cancer-related costs.

Support Groups

Connect with other cancer patients and survivors in our free support groups led by oncology social workers.

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Live 8

• Living Beyond Cancer: General Post-Treatment Survivorship Support Group (New York, Video)
• Living Beyond Cancer: Young Adult Post-Treatment Survivorship Support Group (New York, Video)
• Living With Cancer: A Group for Older Adults 65+ (New York and New Jersey, Video)
• Living With Cancer: A Journal Writing Support Group (New York and New Jersey, Video)
• Living With Cancer: General Patient Support Group (New Jersey, Video)
• Living With Cancer: General Patient Support Group (New York, Video)
• Living With Cancer: Metastatic Cancer Patient Support Group (New York, Video)
• Living With Cancer: Young Adult Patient Support Group (New York, Video)

Online 6

• Fire Fighter Cancer Project Support Group
• Grupo de Apoyo Para Personas Con Cáncer (en español) (Support Group for People with Cancer in Spanish)
• Healing With Words — A Therapeutic Writing Group
• LGBTQ+ Cancer Patient Support Group
• Post-Treatment Survivorship Support Group
• Young Adults With Cancer Support Group

Community Programs

Learn about and view the full calendar of our free community programs.

Specialized Programs

CancerCare offers specialized programs to address specific populations and concerns.

Connect Education Workshops

Listen in by telephone or online as leading experts in oncology provide up-to-date information about cancer-related issues in one-hour workshops. Podcasts are also available.

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Upcoming Workshops 3

• Chemotherapy: Novel Approaches to Prevent and Manage Gastrointestinal Treatment Side Effects, Nov 22, 2024
• Challenges Young Adults with Cancer Face: Coping Tips, Dec 06, 2024
• Cancer in the Workplace, Health Insurance, Finances and Returning to School, Dec 13, 2024

Podcasts 82

• Current Perspectives on Cancer Survivorship
• Current Perspectives on the Future of Cancer Research
• What’s New in Precision Medicine
• Managing Eye and Vision Changes Related to Cancer Treatments
• Understanding the Different Names for Biomarker Testing & Their Role in Selecting the Best Treatment for You
• Chemotherapy: Novel Approaches to Prevent and Manage Gastrointestinal Treatment Side Effects
• Understanding the Important Role that Biomarker Testing Plays in Informing the Treatment of Cancer
• Young Adult Survivorship: Fertility, Sexuality and Intimacy
• Addressing the LGBTQI+ Health Disparities Gap
• Challenges Young Adults with Cancer Face: Coping Tips
• Current Perspectives on Cancer Survivorship
• Understanding Diagnostic Technologies and Biomarkers
• Addressing the LGBTQI+ Health Disparities Gap
• Clinical Trials: How They Transform the Treatment of Cancer
• Taking Your Pills on Schedule: Its Importance in Managing Cancer
• Current Perspectives on Cancer Survivorship
• Understanding Diagnostic Technologies and Biomarkers
• Eye and Vision Changes Related to Cancer Treatments
• Chemotherapy Treatment Side Effects: Prevention & Management
• Clinical Trials: How They Transform the Treatment of Cancer
• Taking Your Pills on Schedule: Why It Is So Important in Managing Cancer
• Current Perspectives on Cancer Survivorship
• Managing the Side Effects of Immunotherapy
• Understanding How Health Care Disparities May Influence Your Cancer Treatment and Care: With Tips & Strategies to Find the Best Cancer Treatment & Health Care Team for You
• Emerging Importance of Telemedicine/Telehealth Appointments in Communicating with Your Health Care Team
• COVID-19, Omicron & Delta Variants, COVID-19 Vaccines & Booster Vaccines: Revised Guidelines for People Living with Cancer and Their Loved Ones
• Managing Eye and Vision Changes Related to Cancer Treatments
• Preventing, Managing & Treating Infection in Adults Living with Cancer
• How Health Care Disparities May Influence Your Cancer Treatment & Care
• Current Perspectives on Cancer Survivorship
• The 9/11 Community, Cancer & COVID-19
• How Diagnostic Technologies and Biomarkers Improve Treatment Decisions for People Living with Cancer
• Cancer and Flu Shots
• Preventing and Managing Infections in Adults Living with Cancer
• Managing the Cost of Living with Cancer
• Treatment Adherence: Taking Your Pills on Schedule – Why It Is So Important
• What are Biosimilars? Understanding Their Role in Cancer Treatment: Current and Future Perspectives
• Current Perspectives in Cancer Survivorship
• Cancer and The Workplace: Understanding Your Legal Protections
• Understanding the Costs of Care and Your Health Care Coverage
• Trends in Oncology and Treatment Planning: What You Need to Know
• Care for Your Bones During & After Cancer Treatment: Tips to Improve Bone Health
• Preventing Chemotherapy Induced Nausea and Vomiting
• Joys and Challenges of Pets in Your Home When You Have Cancer
• Treatment-Related Rash and Dry Skin
• Mind Body Techniques to Cope with the Stresses of Cancer
• Living with Cancer Throughout The Cancer Journey
• Managing Sensory Disruptions During Cancer Treatments
• Nutrition and Healthy Eating Tips During and After Cancer Treatments
• Healthy Eating and Managing Weight Changes During Cancer Treatment
• Highlights of the Affordable Care Act
• Managing Cancer Pain: What You Need to Know
• Young Adult Survivorship: Fertility, Sexuality and Intimacy
• Understanding the Affordable Care Act (ACA) for People Living with Cancer
• Managing Post-Treatment Neuropathy
• Recapturing Joy and Finding Meaning
• Planning Your Comfort and Care at End of Life
• Using Mind/Body Techniques to Cope with the Stress of Survivorship
• Nutrition, Physical Activity and You: A Guide for People Living With Cancer
• Fear of Recurrence and Late Effects: Living with Uncertainty
• The Challenges of Coping with Cancer and Other Health Problems
• Weight Changes After Cancer Treatment: Why is it Happening and What Can I Do About It
• Mouth Pain and Discomfort: All You Need to Know About Mouth Sores and Oral Mucositis
• Helping Children and Teens Understand When a Parent or Loved One Has Cancer
• Chemobrain: The Impact of Cancer Treatments on Memory, Thinking and Attention
• Survivors Too: Communicating With and Among Family, Friends and Loved Ones
• Communicating with Your Health Care Team After Treatment: Making the Most of Your Visit
• Trouble Sleeping? Sleep Better to Feel Better: Tips You Can Use
• Helping Teachers and Educators Support Siblings of Children with Cancer
• Understanding Peripheral Neuropathy
• The Importance of Nutrition and Physical Activity
• Dental Health During Cancer Treatments
• Managing the Stress of Survivorship
• Balancing Cancer and Careers: Living and Working with Cancer
• Rediscovering Intimacy in Your Relationships Following Treatment
• The Importance of Communicating with Your Doctor About Follow-Up Care
• Finding Hope and Meaning After Treatment
• My Treatment is Over: Why Do I Feel So Alone and Sad?
• Managing Your Costs of Recovery
• Is It My Cancer or Am I Getting Older?
• Stress Management Tips for Survivors
• The Challenge of Creating Supportive Work Environments for Employees with Cancer and Their Caregivers

Publications

Read or order our free Connect booklets and fact sheets offering easy-to-read information about the latest cancer treatments, managing side effects and coping with cancer.

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• "We Can Help" CancerCare Client Brochure
• A Helping Hand: The 2024 Resource Guide for People With Cancer
• Advance Care Planning: Be Prepared
• After Treatment Ends: Tools for the Post-Treatment Cancer Survivor
• Anxiety and Cancer
• Biomarkers and the Treatment of Cancer
• Biosimilars and Their Role in Cancer Treatment
• Building Connections as a Veteran: Resources and Support
• Building Connections as an LGBTQ+ Person: Resources and Support
• Cancer and Gender Diversity
• Cancer and the Workplace
• Cancer and the Workplace During COVID-19
• Cancer and Yoga
• CancerCare Co-Payment Assistance Foundation Brochure
• Caring for Myself as My Illness Advances
• Caring for Your Bones When You Have Cancer
• Caring for Your Pets When You Have Cancer
• Caring for Your Skin During Cancer Treatment
• Chemo Brain: What You Need to Know
• Chemotherapy-Induced Nausea and Vomiting
• Clinical Trials: Improving the Care of People Living With Cancer
• Clinical Trials: What You Need to Know
• Communicating With Your Health Care Team
• Consejería para Lidiar Mejor con un diagnóstico de cáncer (Counseling to Better Cope With a Cancer Diagnosis)
• Coping With Anxiety About the Coronavirus
• Coping With Appetite and Weight Changes
• Coping With Cancer and Natural Disasters
• Coping With Cancer as a Gay or Bisexual Man
• Coping With Cancer as a Veteran
• Coping With Cancer as a Young Adult
• Coping With Cancer as a Young Adult
• Coping With Cancer as an LGBTQ+ Person
• Coping With Cancer During the Holidays
• Coping With Cancer for Black, Indigenous and People of Color
• Coping With Cancer When You’re On Your Own: How to Get the Support You Need
• Coping With Cancer When You’re Uninsured
• Coping With Cancer: Tools to Help You Live
• Coping With Chemo Brain: Keeping Your Memory Sharp
• Coping With Diarrhea
• Coping With Fertility Concerns: Finding Resources and Support
• Coping With Lymphedema
• Coping With Nerve Damage (Neuropathy)
• Coping With Sadness and Depression After Cancer
• Coping With Sleep Difficulties During Cancer
• Coping With the Fear of Cancer Returning
• Coping With the Loss of Fertility
• Coping With Venous Thromboembolism
• Coronavirus and COVID-19: What You Need to Know
• Counseling to Better Cope With a Cancer Diagnosis
• Counseling to Better Cope With Post-Treatment Survivorship
• Creating an Ethical Will
• Dating and New Relationships: During and After Cancer
• Doctor, Can We Talk?: Tips for Communicating With Your Health Care Team
• El Valor de Asertividad al hablar con su Doctor (The Value of Assertiveness When Talking to Your Doctor)
• Emotional Concerns After Treatment Has Ended
• Employers' Prescription for Employee Protection Toolkit: Best Practices for Prescription Drug Benefit Design
• Eye and Vision Concerns During Cancer Treatment
• Eye and Vision Concerns During Treatment
• Eye and Vision Concerns: Resources and Support
• Financial Assistance for Children and Teens
• Finding Practical Resources During the Coronavirus
• Finding Resources in Your Community
• For Health Care Professionals: Coping With Stress and Anxiety
• For Health Care Professionals: Cultural Humility in Cancer Care
• Hair Loss During Treatment: Finding Resources and Support
• Healing With Words: Journaling and Reflecting Throughout Treatment
• Helping a Colleague Cope With Cancer in the Workplace
• Helping Children Understand Cancer: Talking to Your Kids About Your Diagnosis
• Helping Teenagers When a Parent Has Cancer
• Helping the Siblings of a Child With Cancer
• How Co-Payment Assistance Foundations Help
• How Health Care Disparities Affect Your Care
• How Schools Can Support Families Affected by Cancer
• If You've Just Been Diagnosed
• Intimacy and Cancer
• Keeping Your Pets Healthy When You Have Cancer
• Keeping Yourself Healthy as a Pet Owner During Treatment
• Legal Assistance: Finding Resources and Support
• Lymphedema: Finding Resources and Support
• Making Sense of Prescription Drug Insurance Policies
• Managing Cancer Pain
• Managing Fatigue
• Managing the Cost of Cancer
• Managing the Emotional Impacts of Social Distancing
• Medical Marijuana and Cancer
• Mom or Dad Has Cancer...Now What?
• Neutropenia and Infections: What You Need to Know
• Older Adults Coping With Cancer
• Pain and Symptom Management: Talk to Your Health Care Team
• Palliative Care: What You Need to Know
• Patients’ Bill of Rights and HIPAA
• Preventing, Managing & Treating Infection in Adults Living With Cancer
• Prostheses Resources
• Questions to Ask Your Health Care Team
• Questions to Ask Your Health Care Team About the Coronavirus and COVID-19
• Relaxation Techniques and Mindfulness Practices: Coping With Cancer
• Sources of Financial Assistance
• Staying Physically Active During and After Cancer Treatment
• Strengthening the Spirit
• Su Equipo de Atención Medica: Entendiendo su Función (Your Health Care Team: Understanding Their Roles)
• Supporting a Child With Cancer
• Survivorship Care Plan: Follow-Up Care and Returning to Work
• Synthetic Wig Care and Resources
• Talking to Children When a Loved One Has Cancer
• Talking to Your Health Care Team About Treatment Side Effects
• Talking With Children About the Coronavirus
• Términos que debe tener en cuenta: Definiciones de seguros (Terms to Know: Insurance Definitions)
• Términos que debe tener en cuenta: Síntomas, tratamientos y efectos secundarios (Terms to Know: Symptoms, Treatments and Side Effects)
• Terms to Know: Insurance Definitions
• Terms to Know: Screening and Diagnosis
• The Importance of Dental Health
• The Importance of Hospice Care
• The Importance of Nutrition and Healthy Eating
• The Importance of Nutrition During Treatment
• The Importance of Taking Your Pills Every Day on Schedule
• The Importance of Taking Your Pills on Schedule
• The Need for Consistent Terms for Testing in Precision Medicine
• The Role of a Health Care Proxy
• The Role of Clinical Trials in Your Cancer Treatment
• The Role of Pharmacists During Cancer Treatment
• The Value of Assertiveness When Talking to Your Doctor
• Tips for Managing Hair Loss
• Tips for Managing Nausea and Increasing Appetite During Cancer Treatment
• Tips for Managing the Cost of Cancer
• Transportation Resources
• Understanding Biosimilars
• Understanding Medicare
• Understanding Peripheral Neuropathy
• Understanding the Affordable Care Act
• Understanding the Role of Biomarkers in Treating Cancer
• Understanding the Role of Immuno-Oncology in Treating Cancer
• Understanding Workplace Issues and Cancer
• Understanding Your Insurance Coverage
• What Are Copay Accumulator Adjustor Programs?
• What Is a Living Will?
• What Is a Specialty Pharmacy?
• What is Immunotherapy?
• What Is Pre-Authorization?
• What Is Step Therapy?
• What People With Cancer Should Know About Biomarker Testing
• When to Get a Second Opinion
• Why Join a Support Group?
• Your Health Care Team: Understanding Their Roles

Ask CancerCare

Every month, featured experts answer cancer patient’s questions about coping with cancer. View all questions and answers.

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• I have stage 4 cancer and after 5 years of receiving chemotherapy, I'm being told there are no more treatment options for me. Because I survived so long with a terminal diagnosis, some people in my family don't seem understand how serious this is. How can I help them understand?
• My dad has terminal cancer and he is currently at home. He has no insurance, but Medicaid is pending. We're trying to get hospice or some support. What can I do?
• What support services should a cancer survivor look for after finishing treatment?
• I've finished treatment and now I feel like I'm on my own. Are there things I should be doing?
• I have received several different treatment recommendations from doctors, and I have to decide what type of treatment to have. This overwhelms me. How can I make the right choice?
• What are support groups and how can they help me? How do I know if they're right for me?
• I'd like to organize a support group for cancer survivors and people facing a cancer diagnosis. What do I need to do to get one started?
• I'm a cancer survivor and am wondering if I should seek counseling now that my treatment has ended?
• What are the different types of online groups I can join?
• Are there books written specifically for children that can help them understand and cope with a parent's cancer diagnosis?
• Last week I told my son that I had cancer and we have barely spoken about it since. What can I do to help support my son?
• I've been recently diagnosed and I'm not sure quite how to tell my kids. Is it ever a good idea to not tell them?
• My teenage son has had body-image issues since having cancer. His treatments caused him to gain weight and surgeries left him with scars. How can I help him deal with this?
• I have a 14-year-old son who doesn't seem to want to talk about my cancer at all. I know it's hard for him, but it also can't be good for him to keep things bottled up. What should I do?
• I'm looking for support for my teenage son to help him deal with his sister's cancer. Can you recommend any specific places?
• I'm starting chemotherapy soon. Should I avoid having sex?
• I am a spiritual person and believe that prayer works. My 94-year-old aunt now has bladder cancer. How can I use the power of prayer to help her and my cousins?
• My cancer has just come back, and I feel really let down by my faith. Is this normal, and is there something that could help me through this crisis?
• I'm currently in treatment and having a hard time leaving the house, even for doctor's appointments or going to church. I've heard that some members of my church have been able to receive assistance from the parish. Do you know what type of help is available?
• I was raised in a non-religious household and was never exposed to any spiritual or religious practices or ideas. How can spirituality help me cope with my cancer?
• One of the toughest times I have is when I go to bed at night. After I turn off the lights and am in the dark, my thoughts go immediately to my cancer and possibly dying from it and all the things I should do in preparation. Any suggestions?
• Can you suggest some resources that address the effects of mind/body exercises on your immune system?
• My treatments for cancer aren't always easy. More and more, I am thinking negative thoughts, which only increases my anxiety. What can I do to calm my mind and help make my treatment sessions go more smoothly?
• Since I've been diagnosed, I've been anxious and sometimes feel overwhelmed by my thoughts, which I can't seem to "turn off." Are there any ways I can help myself to feel more calm?
• I was told that if I did not have a positive attitude my treatment wouldn't be as effective, or worse, it wouldn't work. Sorry, I just don't feel positive about this whole cancer experience! What can I do?
• I've been diagnosed with advanced cancer. I have five children and feel they don’t want me around for Christmas, because it makes them sad, and they don’t have the time for both me and their own families. I can’t be alone. I don’t know what to do to or what to say to them.
• I was diagnosed with cancer a few months ago and I don't feel much like celebrating the holidays. I'm worried I'll be a downer for my family and I'm not sure how to act.
• I have been receiving chemotherapy treatments for the past six months and my memory is not as good as it used to be. Is this because of the chemo?
• My dad is elderly and is scheduled to start treatment for cancer. We are concerned about his ability to tolerate treatment side effects given his age.
• I have a full-time job. How will side effects from my chemotherapy affect my ability to work?
• I'm worried about how the side effects from my treatment will interfere with the holidays. Any suggestions?
• My aunt is on morphine and acetaminophen for advanced cancer. What else can we do to ease her pain?
• I'm worried about taking pain medications. Could I become addicted?
• My mother has been struggling with pain since she was diagnosed with cancer. What can she do?
• How do I talk to my doctor about the pain I am experiencing?
• I'm receiving chemotherapy and have been gaining weight. Is that normal?
• My mother is undergoing chemotherapy treatments and her appetite is poor. She has a doctor's appointment next week. I plan to go with her but don't know what to say to her doctor.
• I just started chemotherapy. I am not eating as much as before I started treatment. I don't have the energy to prepare my meals and sometimes feel nauseated. What should I do?
• I'm starting to have second thoughts about my oncologist. She started off having more time to answer my questions, but over time, I feel like I can barely get a phone call returned. I don't want to be a pushy patient, but I also am becoming more and more frustrated. What should I do?
• I've just been diagnosed with cancer. How can I get information to help me make treatment decisions?
• Where can I find a simple explanation of medical terms?
• What is "compassionate use"?
• I am currently receiving treatment for my second recurrence of cancer. I have no family or friends close by, and my husband works so if I become very sick I will be home alone most of the time. How will hospice be able to help us? I know that they can't be here 24/7. Any idea what my options will be?
• My father's oncologist has made a referral for him to see a pain specialist. Is this palliative care? He seems resistant - how do convince him that it's a good idea? And is palliative care covered by insurance?
• What is palliative care?
• I have been treated by my oncologist for cancer for over 2 years. It currently has spread and I've been referred to hospice care. I thought there would be more treatments available to me. My oncologist was so positive at the beginning and now I feel that she is avoiding me and I'm very hurt. Should I confront her?
• I am going through treatment and need help covering the costs of practical things, like nutritional drinks and medical supplies. Are there resources available?
• My son owes one hospital over $100,000 for surgeries, chemotherapy and radiation treatments. He has recently been approved for Medicare but it will be impossible for him to pay the remaining costs, after Medicare pays, for any future treatment. Is there any legal help for him?
• How do I find information about a particular doctor or hospital? How do locate a specialist?
• A number of employees in our workplace have cancer. As the personnel director, I would like to organize educational programs to help all our employees learn more about cancer. How do I do this?
• My co-worker told me she has cancer. I don't know what to talk about or what to say to her.
• I am an employer and one of my employees has just been diagnosed with cancer. I want to be helpful but am not sure what I should do.
• I was just diagnosed with cancer and plan to continue working. Do I have to tell my employer that I have cancer?
• How do I figure out which Medicare plan is right for me? I don't know if I should get a Medicare Advantage plan or a Medigap plan, or if I should just keep my original Medicare and do neither.
• I have insurance, but I still have bills that are stressing me out. I thought I'd be covered, but I don't know how I'm going to pay the part I'm being told I owe.
• I've been having trouble paying my co-pays. I am self employed and with the downturn in the economy my business is way down. Where can I go to find some help?
• I think I may have cancer but I don't have any insurance and I'm not sure I can afford it. What can I do?
• I am the caregiver for my elderly father who has cancer. My father’s cancer has spread to his bones and he's having pain. What can I do to help relieve his pain?
• My daughter is having separation anxiety now that she knows about my cancer. She also wakes me up every night saying she is scared. She won't go to sleep without me. Any suggestions?
• My 7-year-old daughter is sure she did something to cause my cancer. What can I say to her to convince her otherwise?
• How can a cancer survivor deal with fear of recurrence?
• As caregiver for my husband, I have no interest in the holidays. I know this is a disappointment to our adult children, and our young grandchildren don't understand why I just don't care about shopping, etc. What can I say to them to tell them I love them but I am just so sad, other than just that?
• My 24-year-old son was recently diagnosed with cancer and I think it would be a good idea for him to join a support group. How do I convince him?
• I am 28 years old and it seems like I'm the only one my age with cancer. Is there anyone else like me out there?
• I've recently started treatment and I'm trying to find things that can help support my 13-year-old such as groups, counseling, etc. Do you have recommendations?
• My 5-year-old nephew has lost an eye due to retinoblastoma. He has started asking questions we do not know how to answer (e.g., What does cancer look like? Was I born with it?). How do we answer these questions and ease his anxieties?
• My husband has advanced cancer, and he has severe pain in his lower back and legs. What does that mean?
• My pain seems to be increasing. How do I tell my doctor without sounding like a "seeker"?
• How can I find an exercise program that is adjusted for physical limitations I have due to having had cancer? I can't walk like I used to, because I have nerve damage in one leg and I tire easily. I thought yoga or Tai Chi, but I can't do the normal sets. Any ideas what kind of exercise I can do or where I can find modified plans?
• I finished treatment and would like information on fertility issues and cancer survivors. Can you help me?
• I've heard recently about this condition - what is neuropathy?
• Any tips for dealing with neuropathy in cold weather?
• I stopped cancer treatment some time ago and am still struggling with neuropathy. How long does neuropathy usually last?
• I'm having several lymph nodes removed from under the arm—what can I expect?
• My father has been diagnosed with cancer and does not have insurance. He is a vet—how do I get him treatment?
• My father, an Air Force veteran, died from cancer three years ago. He was exposed to Agent Orange in Vietnam. Have there been any studies on the health of children of veterans? I have been diagnosed with cancer.
• I am a veteran, and I was diagnosed with cancer in 2011. I am not working and I need assistance to help me pay for new glasses. I have applied for disability and was denied, but I am appealing the decision. Can you point me to an organizations that may help me?
• How can I help my 75-year-old mother organize the different pills she takes for her cancer and other numerous health problems?
• I can't afford to pay for my cancer medication. Is there help to pay for them?
• Are there programs that can help me feel better about myself? I'm 29, recently finished chemo and radiation and am feeling blah. Anything I can join?
• This is a hard time of year for us as my wife has cancer. Would you recommend any books about talking to and doing the best for our kids?
• I'm not a writer but am interested in journaling since recently being diagnosed. I feel I have things I want to say that I don't want to share with people. Could you give me direction as to where I should start? Are there resources that could help me?
• I have been keeping a journal since I was diagnosed. I wrote in it daily in the beginning and currently write only once or twice a week. Is it better to have a separate journal for each month or just one? I eventually hope to write a book about my cancer experience and will use my journal entries to help me. Any suggestions?
• Is there ever a time when it isn't good to write or keep a journal? I sometimes wonder if I feel more upset after I write about being diagnosed with cancer and what I'm feeling.
• In my journal, I tend to write the unkind things that I wouldn't say in person. Should I destroy these journals so my loved ones don't read them after I am gone and suffer or should I leave them as an honest expression of my feelings at the time?
• I've been on chemotherapy and have noticed a blurriness that comes and goes. Could the chemo be the culprit?
• My mother is 85 and was told she has stage 3 cancer. She doesn't seem to understand exactly what is going on and is passive. We're not that pleased with her doctors. I don't want to be pushy, but how can we help her?
• I'm thinking of getting a second opinion. How should I approach this? Do I tell my doctor?
• I want to ask my oncologist about other types of treatments, but am concerned she might think I'm questioning what she has recommended. Is this something most patients do and how should I bring up?
• What is hospice?
• My husband has been diagnosed with Stage IIIA non-small cell lung cancer that had spread to the mediastinal nodes. I have heard that the five-year survival rate for this type of cancer is 15% or approximately two years. Is this correct?
• My 77-year-old mom has been diagnosed with cancer. As a stroke survivor with diabetes, she is at high risk for surgery, which seems to be the preferred option for treatment. I don't feel like I am asking enough and/or the right questions. I am meeting with an oncologist for guidance. However, I want to be sure I am dotting all "i's" and crossing all of my "t's." Is someone available to speak with to help guide me in the right direction for starters?
• My 69-year-old father is going through chemotherapy now and has little to no appetite and vomits up whenever he does eat. He is okay to drink meal-replacements such as Ensure. Should I mix in protein powder (like the kind you purchase for weight training) into these Ensure drinks to give him extra protein? Will this help him or will it cause a negative effect? Is there anything else I can do to help him have enough calories through the day?
• My best friend is an only child and struggling to hold on to her job. Her elderly father has cancer and recently developed an infection following surgery. His doctors feel that he would do better at home with my friend acting as nurse, taking care of his wound, etc. Unfortunately, she has been ill herself and has already had to take too much time off of work. Her father's condition is not terminal, so hospice is not an option. Finances are limited. What options for in-home care do you recommend?
• I have cancer and have been struggling to be a “normal” parent. My biggest challenge is disciplining my children because I feel guilty that I’m tired and not available as much to them. Is there any info out there about raising children while living with cancer?
• I'm a patient navigator and have had a few requests from patients and their families for LGBT resources (groups and information mainly). Any recommendations?
• How do I go about seeing if I can have my dog trained to be a therapy dog (and for me to become a volunteer)?
• My mom has been in and out of the hospital due to complications from her chemo. Her dog stays with me when she is hospitalized, but I know it's hard for her to be away from him. Is there any service that would bring pets to visit her? Who would I ask?
• A teacher asked me (a school social worker) how to help an 8-year-old student with his/her own cancer diagnosis and loss of hair. Any advice?
• I am just getting back on my feet after treatment. I want to go back to work, but would like to go to school for an advanced certificate or degree. Is there any financial aid specifically for new survivors?
• I would love to go to a spa or retreat after my last treatment, but what I am finding is extremely expensive. After a loss of income for a year and medical expenses, there's not much left for anything. Is there a retreat or spa like this for cancer survivors? Maybe a place that insurance would help cover costs?
• My boyfriend was diagnosed with cancer and is receiving treatment. However, since treatment began, he keeps out of my way as much as he can. He finds excuses not to meet me, refuses to take my calls and doesn't even reply to my short messages. Now I am worried about his cancer and feel so sad about his attitude. Can you give me some advice?
• My father has advanced cancer and this may be his last Christmas with us. How does our family make this holiday not put too much pressure on his mental state and make the focus on just trying to enjoy the time we have left with each other?
• I am 19 and my mother was diagnosed with cancer over a year ago. She has had an operation and been through chemotherapy treatment and is technically 'cancer free' now, however we have been told she has a very slim chance of living past 5 years. My mother has completely changed, and I don't know how to talk to her as she seems like a completely different person since chemo. Is this normal?
• My mom has been living with metastatic breast cancer for about 8 years and she's at the end of her life now. She has started hospice care and her prognosis is that she has about 4-6 months left. I don't feel particularly sad because I've kind of prepared myself for this along the way and my family has always been good about informing me at each step in my mother's care. Also, I'm worried about how I will feel about her loss after she's passed and worried that the grief might come all at once. What do you think?
• I will have a new MRI this week and find out if the cancer treatment did what they wanted it to do. I know I will have MRIs for the rest of my life which I pray is very long. How do you not worry that it will come back? How do I just let it go and live my life?
• I am a newly diagnosed cancer patient. Needless to say, I'm on an emotional roller coaster as my life has changed drastically. The side effects have cause multiple issues, many not directly treatable and as a result I worry and experience anxiety on a number of issues: relationships, fertility, reoccurring cancer, finances and life expectancy. My question is how does a cancer patient find a therapist/psychiatrist (particularly one with experience with cancer patients)? Secondly, should cancer patients see a therapist or a psychiatrist?
• I'm a kindergarten teacher and one of my students is going through a rough time because his mom has cancer and is undergoing treatments. Since she is not well, she does not have a ton of energy to play with him. We are concerned that over the summer he will go backwards by not socializing with other children. Any suggestions for free to cheap summer camp options for him? Or other resources? He lives in Brooklyn, NY.
• Are there support groups geared towards grandparents of a child with cancer?
• I am seeking a support group for children under age 12 whose single mother is in stage 4 cancer. Please provide any available options.
• Can taste buds still be affected two years after completing chemo treatments?
• How do I find financial help for a friend whose daughter has cancer (age 5)?
• How do you find "joy" in life when faced with your partner's serious cancer treatments, pain, and surgery? I find that I am worried/anxious most of the time.
• My wife got back her biopsy and has her surgeon visit scheduled for the 22nd. She is 52 and I am so scared I cannot put it into words. I know I need to be strong for her and I am in front of her but I cry for hours when I am alone. I need to find a way to put some of this fear away so I can be the man she needs me to be and help her through this. Any advice?
• Recently my dad was diagnosed with cancer, and I've chosen to take on being his primary caregiver. This is a emotional and stressful experience. I am staying at their house 3 hours away from my husband and friends, making it more difficult. Every online support group is geared towards young adult spouses, and I'm one year too old to qualify. Do you know of any support groups online for my situation?
• Can I join an online support group if I live outside of the U.S.?
• Can you advise on the best method of obtaining educational support for my daughter who has fallen behind at school and needs more specialist support to catch up with her peers? She is seven, and was originally diagnosed with cancer at age four.
• I'm a 71-year-old male just diagnosed with cancer and a heart transplant survivor. Four days ago, I had my first chemo treatment. Anticipating the usual side effects, I experienced none of those symptoms. Instead of tired and achy I almost feel invigorated. Am I just waiting for the other shoe to drop? Will the above symptoms manifest themselves in upcoming chemo treatments? What can I expect going forward?
• My 11-year-old daughter has been distant since I was diagnosed with breast cancer earlier this year. I’m looking for advice on how to talk to her and support her. I know it’s not easy for her.
• My 51-year-old husband is in the last stage of cancer. It's very difficult for all of us and specially for our teenage son. He needs some counseling and maybe groups to talk. I need help regarding this especially during the holidays.
• My kids seem to be acting out more since I was diagnosed with cancer last year. I'm looking for ways to address that while still being sensitive to what they are going through. I know it's a lot.
• My best friend was diagnosed with cancer late last year. She has three kids, and I'm trying to figure out how I can best help her and/or her kids.
• I'm looking for books to read that would be geared for young adults trying to cope with cancer.
• Is there a support group for long term adult survivors with serious late effect problems, such as radiation plexopathy?
• Are there any new clinical trials available for someone with advanced cancer that's spread to his bones?
• My daughter who is in her 50s had cancer. Since her operation and recovery, she has become a recluse afraid to be with people and appears to be infected with any cold, flu or any bug that is in the environment. She just watches TV and sleeps with no social contacts. How can I help her?
• I am a cancer patient and after my treatment, it messed up my teeth. What do I do to get help?
• My grandmother has been diagnosed with cancer in two different areas, and my grandparents are on a limited income. I was wondering if she could receive help with the cost of cancer treatments?
• My aunt was diagnosed with cancer a few weeks ago and she's scared, anxious and stressed out. I'm trying to find anything that will help her and looking for suggestions.
• My mother-in-law was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last fall. My husband is having a difficult time with the diagnosis, one part of him his preparing, checking her will, and other practical tasks, while the other part of him is very angry—including bitterness towards most in the medical community. This anger is reflected back on myself and our son. I have mentioned counseling to him, to which he said he probably does need, but I need help in getting him to the right sources. I want to be there for support, but also need boundaries of what is acceptable. I appreciate your help with my questions and concerns.
• When I was diagnosed, my cancer was aggressive and treatment needed to start as soon as possible. So when asked about fertility, I didn't get a chance to review all my options or come up with the money to get it done. I had a partial hysterectomy (my ovaries were removed but my uterus is still there). I was wondering what would be my options for children in the future?
• Is there any financial help available to pay for fertility treatment costs?
• I have just started exploring meditation. I want to find my inner voice and intuition. How you know if you are meditating correctly?
• I've just completed my treatment (I'm 26) and I'm not sure how to handle the possibility of dating. I'm not comfortable disclosing that I've had cancer, but I know that I should.
• I was diagnosed with cancer at 14 and after two years of treatment, went into remission but was diagnosed with depression soon after. Now I am 24, and I've struggled with depression for ten years and my cancer has relapsed. I am attempting to go to school, but between the fatigue from the cancer and depression, I would barely be able to attend college. Are there any financial aid programs?
• I was diagnosed with cancer in 2017 and need dentures and an eye exam. Are there organizations that can assist? If you can help me find an organization who will help me so I can have my self confidence again, I would really appreciate it.
• My daughter is 21 years old and just had her third surgery for cancer in 11 years. The doctors took a wait and see approach the last two times, but they are currently doing a molecular study to determine treatment. I don't know how to be there for my daughter and keep encouraging her. She is lacking in social skills after all these years and she refuses to do therapy. How do I encourage her to maybe get involved through a website or a support group? She needs more than just her mom.
• My cousin has been diagnosed with cancer, and she's engaged. She's worried that she won't be able to have children and seems quite depressed. Is there someone she could speak with to help her figure out what is possible?
• I'm 23 and started a new job last year, but have been recently diagnosed with cancer. My treatment should last less than four months, but I'm concerned about losing my job. My employer seems supportive, but I'm still worried. I’m looking for some guidance.
• How soon after a stem cell transplant can you return to work? Will I need to take a leave of absence during the complete work up as well as transplant and average time off?
• I have a few nagging side effects from chemo that seem to linger. Not sure if there is anything I should be doing?
• Is genetic testing necessary or just helpful for treatment?
• I've thought about trying yoga (currently receiving radiation therapy), but am concerned I'm not strong enough or I'll somehow hurt myself. Are there special programs that are for people with an illness/cancer?
• I have not done yoga in a long while and I'm feeling stiff and uncomfortable one week after my laparoscopic total hysterectomy. Can I do stretching and some slight bending?
• My parents are visiting me from India since February 2020. Recently, last month my mother was diagnosed with an early stage cancer. Due to the COVID-19 situation, my parents are unable to go back to India for the surgery. The oncologist here has advised us to opt for the surgery within six weeks (since mid-March). We are unable to bear a high surgery cost. I would like to know if you can help us financially.
• My 22-year-old son had cancer in September 2019 and had most of his right lung removed. He doesn't seem to think he is high risk for COVID-19. He is still spending time with friends but only a few at a time. As his mom, who has metastatic breast cancer and is currently on immunotherapy, I am very afraid for him and for me. Any suggestions on how I can make him understand how serious this is?
• I have a friend with a recent diagnosis of cancer. She works in Michigan in a hospital as a phlebotomist, and she's still working. I am looking for assistance/programs/information about what she can do to stop working while the COVID-19 pandemic is in full effect. Any guidance is appreciated.
• My mom was diagnosed with cancer in December 2018. They did surgery and removed the cancer, but it unfortunately returned through brain tumors. She has had chemo, whole brain radiation, targeted radiation to try and combat the tumors. The effects of the tumors have gotten worse. Is there any help out there for her to assist with the daily tasks that she needs? Due to COVID-19, I am working from home so I am able to come by and help her out daily and work from her house. Any assistance that you could provide or direction would be very useful.
• I was diagnosed with cancer three years ago and am still taking treatments. I have been working from home since March 22 because of COVID-19. Now my work is start to open again and this concerns me. I was wondering if the Family First Act will give me more time for paid FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act)?
• Can I still see the doctor during COVID-19 for checkups because I am showing all the symptoms for cancer and I’m in pain?
• A friend's wife has stage 3 colon cancer. Being a teacher, she lost her job and husband is being laid off in two weeks (both are do to the pandemic). How can we get finance assistance so we can make ends meet?
• I’m a nurse who lost my job due to COVID-19 and was just diagnosed with cancer without insurance. I’m kind lost because most cancer hospital do not take people without insurance.
• I'm concerned about taking my mother to her radiation treatments due to COVID-19. Are there guidelines or rules available that would help me make sure she's safe?
• My sister was diagnosed with cancer recently, and she has no health insurance (she does not qualify for Medicaid). What can she do?
• I have been diagnosed with cancer. I have no insurance or can't get Medicaid. I owe a doctor for a previous procedure. I've applied for disability, and I have no income. I can't get the radiation treatment I need - what should I do?
• I work in a hospital and would like to better understand the challenges LGBTQ+ people face in medical settings. I'd like to educate the team I work with.
• I'm worried my grandfather is not getting the best treatment for his cancer. When I ask him to ask more questions, he tells me he trusts his doctor and that's it. He lives in a rural area, and I would like for him to get a second opinion, but not sure how to?
• My mother is 71 and was recently diagnosed with cancer that has spread to her lymph nodes. She has always been a bit difficult and very impatient. I am trying my best to be everything to her, but it seems no matter what I say or do, she thinks I'm condescending, or annoying or unwilling to help. I suggested a therapist or support group could help, and she got furious with me. I've read that anger and emotions are normal after a diagnosis, but she truly seems out of control. Any advice on how I can communicate effectively with her?
• Is there a support group for newly diagnosed people? I'm 55 and just diagnosed with soft tissue sarcoma on my right leg, below the knee. So many questions! How long can I keep working; how do I tell my friends and relatives; how do I tell my workmates and supervisors; how will I cope with all the medical bills?
• Would you recommend specific websites or organizations that can provide the latest information about biomarkers (and testing)?
• Christmas is very special to me. My mother passed away on Christmas. My family is having a hard time this year as I was diagnosed in September with metastatic cancer. I really need smiles and laughter. Any suggestions?
• My brother is 70 and has been diagnosed with metastatic cancer. He has had chemotherapy and radium 223 treatments. Both have had harsh side effects (nausea, vomiting, weight loss, constipation, skin changes, weakness, sadness and depression). How do I as his caregiver support him? It's also not a good fit with his oncologist.
• I am looking for legal advice about my job. Because of my treatment I had for cancer, I can not drive. My job wants me back in the office full time. I have been working from home this past year. My husband has to drive me to work and that is one hour with out traffic and I go in the office 2 times a week. Starting in September I was told I had to start working full time in the office knowing I have nerve damage to my feet / legs and I get cramps. Please help.
• Since I'm not sure how I'll feel during treatment, how do I approach my employer about possibly needing some time off? Can it be flexible? I've been told some people are able to continue to work, but not all.
• I would like to find a support group for my wife. She was recently diagnosed with ovarian cancer. Can you please provide information regarding this specific type of support group?
• Are there any live video chat support groups available for people specifically with lung cancer? I'm trying to help a loved one find this type of support. Both live chat and lung cancer specific are important to her.
• Are there any resources available to assist families deliver a cancer diagnosis including side effects associated with treatment to children and adults with intellectual disabilities?
• My 12-year-old grandson has cancer. He’s in his second chemo cycle and his hair is beginning to fall out. He’s got a positive attitude but it is tough. If I let him shave my head bald, would that be beneficial to him?
• Are there any resources to assist someone who is uninsured in getting a colonoscopy?
• I just got my screening MRI and my PSA is rising slowly for 3 years from 4.0 to 5.1. The MRI indicates a level 4 lesion well defined with no infiltration. I have an MRI fusion targeted biopsy scheduled in late May. Is the waiting period for this lesion appropriate? I'm being seen at a university hospital and clinics by a urologist.
• I would like to get a cancer screening. I need help financially and where to find screenings.
• My mother and father are 79 and 82, respectively. My mother has had lung cancer for five years and they removed part of her right lung. Now, they've found cancer in her lymph nodes and she has started IV chemo. After three treatments there has been no change in the size of her cancer and her recovery from the treatment is getting worse (more fatigue, more nausea, more hair loss, greater duration of recovery, etc.). They are not receiving any mental or emotional counseling and I suspect will soon be facing difficult decisions about treatment. How can I counsel them to get counseling or join a support group? Where can I point them?
• My 26-year-old daughter will be staying in Baltimore for 12 weeks and I was wondering if there's some organization that can help her with food while there. She wants to be able to work while getting cancer treatment during those 3 weeks and also needs gas money to travel back and forth on weekends to see her 4-year-old autistic son. Any help would be appreciated.